I know God gives us all gifts but sometimes I wish he had a return policy. I have the gift of giving and thank God that discernment comes with it in a boxed set. Sometimes I want to give that gift back and I do not care if it comes with a free miniature size version of it with a 19.99 value attached. People who give will often attract “takers” and with it will be emotional vampires, users, and people that do not realize that being kind is not the algebraic equation for weak. I have counted how many times I have said,” I would be selfish and not think about anyone but myself.” The number is now at 1.5 million times. I can’t help myself. I want to save people and I have often almost drowned doing so. This is when that “boxed set” has come in handy. Discernment allows me to watch people drown because God is trying to teach them something. It shows me that every cause and sob story that I hear doesn’t need my support. I am not an ATM machine for unlimited withdrawals without a fee. I am a person who requires deposits and an occasional life vest. I am not an Encyclopedia Brown set (yes, that was a throwback) or your cheering session all of the time. Appreciate people who give because the world is abundant with people who only want to “unwrap” gifts.